Yogata ji mera bhi aapse kuch question hai
1) aapne Love Marriage ki thi ya Arranged Marriage? 
2) Ek ladki ko apne pati k liye kitna sacrifise karna thik hai (jaise job, business, study chod dena). kya yea thik hai? aur ager ladki Job ya Business karna chahe mager ladke ke ghar me ladke ke mata-pita ko bahu ki jyaada jarurat ho to? kya ladki apne sapno ko chod kar ek housewife bane..
edher mai yea poochna chahta hu ki ek ladki ki liye yea kitna important faisla hoga?
ans.1] arranged marriage hi ki bhai.......
2.]bahut acha question hai ye
agar ladki ko pehle bata dia jaye ki apko apni wife se ya apke ghar walon ko apni bahu se kya umeeden hai to woh apne aap decide kar legi ki kya woh es ghar me adjust kar legi ya nahi.........
basically u have to see wether ur views on this are compatible or not before marriage.ladki ke liye bahut imp. decision hoga yeh so be clear and frank on this issue.
baaki studies must go on woh to kabhi bhi kese bhi zaari rakh sakte hain bahut options hai india me. regular /corres.haan kai baar quality of education pe compromise karna pad sakta hai.
lekin career ka to decision ladki ko soch samajh ke lena chahiye . she should try to balance both.
for me and i am sure other working ladies/girls
family is first
but becoz in my kindda job i can afford to do this easily..........that's why i am here in US as a family.
but all jobs are not same there are various situations ..........so accordingly..........
